Not a girl, not quite a man.

ruby rose

ruby 2Swoon, swoon, swoon. I have a massive girl crush on Ruby Rose (as do now most heterosexual women thanks to OITNB) and have admired her courage to talk openly about being gender fluid (not identifying with either gender) and her commitment to using her exposure to educate people on gender fluidity, with awareness and education helping to breed acceptance.

I’m not a guy; I don’t really feel like a woman, but obviously I was born one. So, I’m somewhere in the middle, which – in my perfect imagination – is like having the best of both sexes.

I have a lot of characteristics that would normally be present in a guy and then less that would be present in a woman. But then sometimes I’ll put on a skirt.

Only adding to her achievement list of positive influence on the transgender movement, Rose and her fiancee Phoebe Dahl are launching a gender fluid, gender neutral clothing range called Scallywags.

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Mx. and Mx. Smith.

Mx pronoun

Mx pronoun
A small but positive step in the right direction for transgender and gender nonconformists. Mx the gender neutral honorific (pronounced mux), may soon be added to the Oxford English Dictionary as an alternative to the traditional Miss, Mrs, Ms and Mr.

Sweden are already ahead, recently adding the pronoun ‘hen’ to the official Swedish language dictionary as an alternative to the male and the female pronouns ‘han’ and ‘hon’ respectively.

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Gender Nonconforming, say what?

An absolutely beautiful piece from my first blog follower!

Provides some deep insight into how people treat others differently depending on what gender they think a person should associate to.

I hate being gender nonconforming because my co-workers were more offended by the people who assumed that I was male than they were about the people who treated me like shit because I’m female. In their minds, it was more important that people acknowledge my femaleness than it was that they acknowledge my ability to do my job.

Read the whole piece here >